Question by Mrs Heather Schabby, M&D Goddess: Should I charge for a "semi" preschool curriculum?
I run a small daycare from my home in which I care for 4 children. Their ages are 1 month, 19 months, 2 years, and 4 years. The 4 year old and the 1 month old are siblings.
Recently, the mother of the 4 year old has been becoming frustrated that I don't teach her child everything like reading and writing with a very structured schedule. My take on it is I am a daycare, not a preschool. Her child is a slow learner, I just taught him how to count and recognize numbers about 8 months ago, and we are currently working on letter recognition. However, I have already taught the 2 year old how to recognize numbers 1-10, count, and also some letter recognition.
I'm not doubting my teaching skills because I have taught many children numbers, reading, and writing before. The mother thinks what I do with her son is not enough, and she's frustrated that I'm not teaching him more.
I decided maybe I should offer her somewhat of a preschool curriculum. Obviously not a full one -- I have other children not yet of age who wouldn't be able to participate, so I could only work with him specifically during certain times. If I offer her this, should I charge her or do it for free? If I do charge, how much should I charge?
She's a close friend of mine, so I already give her a discount. She only pays me $ 135 a week for full time care.
*I also feel like I should add that on top of the issue of being slow to learn, he also has behavioral issues where he attacks people and hurts them pretty badly. I've already instructed them to put him in therapy, which he was in once before but they took him out -- I said he had to go back or he'd have to be removed from my program for the safety of myself and others.
I do have 6 ECE credits and am a registered business. The credits as well as my years of experience do qualify me to teach in a preschool in my state. (Just wanted to let you know.)
And yes, I am very concerned about the behavioral issues as well. He is MUCH worse at home, actually -- his behavior improves under my care where there is discipline. Unfortunately, there isn't much discipline at home and he has typically 4-5 episodes of physical attacks a month where he actually has caused me to bleed on a couple of occasions.
Also I should add I was his nanny when he was younger but the parents could no longer afford me so put him in daycare. He got kicked out of his last daycare when he was 2 for his "attacks" on people and his violent/aggressive behavior. Now, 2 years later I'm getting blamed for it even though he was ejected from his last daycare for it!
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Answer by Ian
I think she should be more concerned with his behavioral issues than with his reading and writing at 4yo! I didn't have any letter recognition until I went to first grade at age 6 and it didn't do me any harm... I scored a 720 on my SAT verbal, even though English is my third language. Plenty of 4yos don't have letter recognition.
Anyway, I'd definitely charge her for the materials you use, like textbooks, etc. Aside from that it's completely up to you, considering you're such close friends. I probably would charge more, but that's me.
Edit: he's too old for early intervention, but if she can get him diagnosed with something, then the local school district will have to pay for therapy and stuff. Sounds like she doesn't have a lot of money, so she probably should look into that. If he's aggressive, it should be easy to get him diagnosed with *something*, maybe ADD or ODD. I'm not fond of labeling kids, but if it gets money for treatment, go for it.
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